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Joel Haver | December 23, 2025



Is it just me or are girls using too many face filters?

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  6. @SebHaarfagre

    December 23, 2025 at 10:19 pm

    I remember early internet or YouTube, can't remember.
    There was a wave of some thing called "The Game".
    It was supposed to "teach guys to get girls" etc.
    The day it was conceived the world got just a little bit worse, and it for sure rebounded here and there 😅

    I'm not an expert, but a pretty good starting point for anything meaningful is to make people smile or generally treat them well and respect them and listen and learn…

    If you want to drown your sorrows on a dead end road then sure go for drugs and hookers/gigolos

    And if you want to have a one night stand then make pretty damn sure that's actually what you want and it makes you happy.

    If someone makes you sad and breaks your heart too, chances are they never wanted to.

    Anyways that's all for now, folks… good luck

  17. @ackables

    December 23, 2025 at 10:19 pm

    Also when you first join tinder, you are given a score by their algorithm. Everyone starts with the highest score possible, but over time your score is lowered as people swipe left on you. That's why you can get a lot of matches initially and then much less later on. If your tinder starts to get stale, delete it and remake it. You'll be back at the top and get way more exposure.

  20. @tradtke101

    December 23, 2025 at 10:19 pm

    This stuff always hits home with me because I remember being 19 and hopeless with women and having some vague exposure to "redpill" ideas.

    I remember thinking that I could

    A: Vow to never compromise my integrity and become a sell-out Chad just so I can bang some vapid hypocritical Stacies

    or

    B: Decide that it kinda makes sense that women might prefer a marginally fitter, financially independent version of me over the me that masturbated my way through high school with almost no intentional efforts toward self-improvement

    So I remember looking over that cliff and recognizing two paths and choosing the one that looked more difficult. But I don't know if that means I should say "I could easily have been one of those incels", or if I should say "I would NEVER have been one of those incels."

  27. @UltimaPowers

    December 23, 2025 at 10:19 pm

    I called a dude out on his reuse of a Tinder meme to try and get a date, especially as he bragged about his 'awesome jokes' to her and I'm like "It's not even your joke! Don't use jokes you didn't come up with and pass them off as your own as you won't be able to maintain that standard and she won't be impressed, particularly if you're all cocky about something you had no hand in!".

    He said something whiny about me being toxic for trying to get him to just represent himself honestly on a dating app. I rolled my eyes so hard they popped out of my head.

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