Happiness Expert Dr. Arthur Brooks | Blocks Podcast w/ Neal Brennan
Happiness expert, Harvard Professor & author Arthur Brooks joins Neal Brennan to discuss why happiness is ~50% genetic, why men and women fundamentally need different things from love (adoration vs. admiration), the dark triad/tetrad in dating apps, why “success addiction” ruins marriages, the psychology of comedy, the power of the “Reverse Bucket List,” why you need to be bored, how SSRIs affect creativity, Mass vs. Doomscrolling, why your personality keeps improving with age, and why suffering isn’t the same thing as pain.
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00:00 Intro
3:21 Is Happiness Genetic?
5:05 Male vs. Female Emotion
10:20 Adoration vs. Admiration: What Men and Women Really need
15:20 The Dark Tetrad: Society’s Most Dangerous People
19:38 Addiction to Being Adored
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35:16 Addiction to Adoration
39:58 Building Protocols to Protect Marriage
44:19 The Happiness Scale
56:45 Going to Mass instead of scrolling
59:34 Why You Need to Be Bored
1:00:56 The Pill, SSRIs & Creativity
1:08:22 Happiness & Aging
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1:21:15 The Psychology of Comedy
1:23:45 The Reverse Bucket List
1:31:25 Psychedelics & Prayer
1:36:18 Suffering
1:43:50 Love & Marriage
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@turbojav
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Great job Neal. So many interviewers roll over and lob softballs at Brooks. You challenged him.
@lupo3694
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
18:10 Who are those hardcore ledtwing politicians, he is talking about?
@jaysilva2374
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Weird that a guy this smart is a devout christian. Honestly it's distractive and off-putting for me.
@dankyoutubes1120
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
i really liked this guy until he ran defense for god fucking over job
@honkycat5442
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
"Love can't be earned"
Watch me.
@HeathcliffeMcHarris
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
troglodytic milieu !?!? XD wat! this guy is winning me over.
@therealjd1503
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Damn you two are so fun to watch together. Great episode ❤
@joshlynkaufman8653
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
This was good—i didn't know about this guy. Lots of good and useful info.
@danielnaberhaus5337
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Please have Mark Manson on, he is rocking my algorithm.
@filthyhouseape
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
1:07:51 some might describe rumination as over thinking.
@filthyhouseape
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
1:00:48 um… I really think there is something to eliminating income inequality etc.
@caljn1
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
The so-called "Free Press"? Yes, republican.
@JohnSherwoodGuitar
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
The algorithm has overlapped.
@cathrerinezetadrones3169
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Oh so this is why dogs like carrots…🙄
@jcole139
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
I love that they light heartedly sparred about Catholicism. I’d have liked to hear a more in depth debate but that’s ok I know it’s not the goal here, but I’m far more like Neal.
His relationship ideas sound great though. I’d buy his book(s?).
@Yaptracks
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Neal… why do you keep saying “wife” like you said it before?? Had to clean my ears to make sure
@dickofthedark4321
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
It's always sad to see two clearly intelligent minds still addled by an iron age fable.
@mavriksc
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
This being a comedy podcast is the only way you can get away with saying both sides have dark sociopaths. only someone so disconnected could think that raising taxes and free healthcare are an extreme position.
@caljn1
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Another odious gift from Oprah, like Oz and Phil et al. This one spends wayyyy too much time on his skeletal appearance. But ask him who did his neck.
@davidpalay361
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
That guy is really smart! Dr Brooks ain’t too bad either!
@medzards
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Thanks for mentioning that you wrote Chappelle on Zoloft. I respect the push back.
@Skunktruck
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
This is a great episode. Thanks Neal and Arthur.
@terrigelbaum8066
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Thank gawd I watch this podcast so I can manage my shit…….
@veddermn8
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Its not "ridiculous" for a mid twenties person to be anxious and depressed about how insanely high the cost of renting/owning a place and the cost of raising kids.
@plumnbagel
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Coincidentally Steve Martin also has a great bit about aging and being open to experience, too.
@hugomiltos8360
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Too many adds my guy
@TheOldHippiebilly
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Finally! An explanation for why good women are always falling for assholes. I've been baffled by that for years. Thanks, Arthur 💜
@OutOfHereSoon
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Neal, did you get married????
@mowski9
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Neil got married? What the…?
@thedarkenergist
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
I have been really struggling mentally lately and just come back down to being sad/unhappy. This helped me realize nobody is gonna come and save me, and that I’ve gotta just start fighting my unhappiness a little harder. Thanks for another good one, Neal. Always appreciated.
@simonhartley9158
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Sounds like there's a reciprocal aspect. Men can adore being admired and the source of that admiration. So for them to get what they need, they have to give what their partner needs. That will be self reinforcing and become more genuine.
@veddermn8
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Putting on an act of adoration sounds like a recipe for resentment though over time.
@BeerPatio
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
Sadists are bad… later on… sadist god is good, come back!
@Xavi_Lobby
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
So this is why I have to bike constantly to feel ok 🤯. Same dynamic with my partner. Extremely enlightening!
@Victor_Sweeet
July 10, 2026 at 8:38 pm
I fucking wish the Democratic party would find a dark triad. We've been milk toast for 50 decades.
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