Your Problem Isn’t Overthinking. It’s Not Thinking Authentically.
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In this short fiction story, we follow the early adult years of a man eager to do everything “right” in his career, relationships, and life routines.
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June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
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@cyberneticbutterfly8506
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I can't really see this, cause it seems a bit unrealistic that the same person would wobble between modes of being that are in opposition. Personality type is pretty strong and this 'Tyler' would have to be far more adaptable than I've seen people be.
If he Tried many things my experience is some click well while others don't and you won't be moved by outsiders influencing you when you are in something you already blend well with.
Creative people don't leave creativity, organized people don't get influenced by others to not be, extraverts don't get introverted they get lonely.
This sounds like a story that feels persuasive but doesn't happen unless we kaleidoscope our way into persuading ourselves its true.
@Marcus.788
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
veryy nice work.
@ConsciousnessNavigator
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Yes!
@RockylarsYT
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Im alone but I got a few friends that like me. Im happy enough with that.
@rembeadgc
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I guess this scenario is not uncommon but very early in life I knew what I liked, what I wanted and I continually gravitated towards where it seemed to be. Over time and through experiment, along with information from others, I began to weed out the places that were deceptive and find where true value was. The only trouble was that I had developed a "taste" for the deceptive as much as a desire for the truth, which was often not as pleasurable as the deception. For me this became a spiritual journey, which I'm still on.
@ronisramen
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
every month i come back to your videos. its calming in a way
@murrik
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
He learned to become a bettter career man, dating, and working out, partying… whats your Problem? 😂
@brianipmh
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I don't think Tylers actually exist in the real world
@keaultra
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I really love your stories, they're very insightful. I think both of them are right in their own way but I ultimately disagree with the drunken woman. Even if you end up not liking what you've pursued, what matters is that you tried it because you wanted to do it, not just because you "can". Doing it at all is what helps you learn what you like or dislike. Not only that but the memories you make are that much more valuable because what it took to get where you are, even if the result isn't what you expected.
@AayanShah-c2x
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
the cure to burnout is authenticity, but what if you want to change?
@bajaseed
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
copying everyone tyler
@TheDionysianFields
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
It's not that he's being inauthentic, he just hasn't taken the time to get to know himself and his preferences. They don't teach that stuff.
@AnthonyCarrick
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
The running club was actually the healthiest.
@RelationalIntelligenceLLC
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
On the Couch with Caarl Jung
@lalop10
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Tyler: I don't know, and I don't really care, as Alan Watts would put it, I think we are just here for the ride, cause the point of life is just being alive…
@vooteimer1234
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
People like tyler are the worst. Just agree with whoever is in his presence at the moment, no core, cant be authentic because hes not there
@TheDionysianFields
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
"Everyone's a victim of their own bad faith."
@Depth6
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Nice
@radicalbean0
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
for people looking into the comments,it could be that u are a people-pleaser maybe just tired but ur space btw people or world wont diminish if u let urself being u
@Leftysrev3nge
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I think I'm overthinking this video.
@CodeForLife-vi6sl
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
i am tyler, im always agree to what people around me said, it depends who i am with
@vanhung7975
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I feel likei've been every version of Tyler at some point in my life. It’s so easy to fall into 'bad faith' just to fit in or feel productive. This reminded me that authenticity isn't about the activity itself, but the intention behind it! 👍
@Schildkrötenchips
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
First minute gave me anxiety 🤢
@danielboard9510
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
So the dichotomy to non authentical thinking is? Capitulation to group thought.
Perhaps I should watch the video. And then the advert at the end which draws no conclusions, Thank you for your inauthentic production of the pursuit of capitalism.
There is a great line from Jonny Rotten. That is repetitious here.
Ever thought you have been cheated.
@chiara914
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Tyler has no personality lol
@donachille3351
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
''yEAh, tHAt mAKes SeNSe"
@codyrobillard4063
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
The bar is called Fools Gold I like that lol.
@christophervj4369
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
The character formation in childhood determines the extend of free will that you will exercise later in life.
@Mind_CoreYT
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Good amazing perfect Viral Video 🎉🎉🎉
@Egomaze
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
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@player37-v6d
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
I actually am the opposite. My interests lead me to being alone more often and while I feel self-conscious about it at times, I can't help but continue doing them cause they are what I like. I was questioned on them, and I have felt pressured to change as a result, but I never felt truly content fixating on such things or doing them as a lifestyle. As long as one maintains their Health, anything goes.
@aryanchatterjee5826
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
this is one of the realest videos ever ngl
@rodrigoluciomx
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Awesome job!
@stephenlupoli
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
OCD, yo?
@ArchMageDarium
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
A week later, Anne breaks up with Tyler. She says, "I don't think I'm right for you." Tyler says, "Okay. Yea, sure." Anne leaves, Tyler scrolls through his phone, sees a video titled "Your Problem Isn't Overthinking. It's Not Thinking Authentically." Tyler passively watches the video while the TV is playing an episode of Friends in the background, and the next video auto plays, and the next video auto plays, and the next video auto plays …
@generallobster
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Don’t be a sheep forever.
@coolerhead
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Hey Robert, please ignore this message if it comes off as anything but from the place of love. Because that's exactly what I mean it to be.
I have spent a considerable time with your words.
If possible, kindly consider going back to your early style and days of deeper seriousness into synthesising something that burns. I don't know if what I am saying makes sense. If it does, you know what I mean.
I can completely understand (or rather, assume) the possible reasons for the change of content style.
If it is something that you must do to achieve what you must achieve through this channel,
consider having a secondary channel where you experiment with going back to your early spirit. And of course, adding more of your new becomings into it.
I hope you will see love in my message. Because the last thing I want is for this to be misunderstood.
I thought of deleting this many times because I thought maybe it's a stupid message to write. Because of course you know best for what you need to do and who even am I. But… you know. We do what we do.
Again, feel free to ignore all that I have said and I will continue to be around without a trace of offence.
@season2882
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
How do they even keep things up so easy like they can anything they want to be
@CarlosMauricioMontielTamay-c1p
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
you should explore the world and choose what you want from it.
@TheUnendingChronicles
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Very relatable 😊
👍
@mmmm88890
June 16, 2026 at 1:16 pm
Well , i think tyler is living as an react to others , it’s extreme of coarse in the vid , but think of it how many times you notice that your personality changes according to your social media algorithm it’s simple your out put (you) is = to your input , if your all social media about fitness and gym you will focus on it , buying supplements trying different diets , excersizes , if your social media about productivity and work and those stuff you will be working 24/7 , if your social media about girl , parties you will be moving from one bar to the next , that’s how i saw the vid