Stephen Merchant | 6 foot 7 and Co-created The Office | Mike Birbiglia’s Working It Out Podcast

This week living legend and giant human Stephen Merchant joins Mike for an all time great episode of Working It Out. Stephen and Mike talk about actionable advice for creatives starting out, the behind-the-scenes politics of co-creating “The Office,” “Extras” with Ricky Gervais, and how Stephen could turn his story about interviewing a pornstar into standup. Plus, the time Stephen walked through a glass door at Sarah Silverman’s Hollywood party.
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Hosted and Produced by Mike Birbiglia
Producers: Peter Salomone, Joseph Birbiglia, Mabel Lewis
Associate Producer: Gary Simons
Consulting Producer: Seth Barrish
Video Consultant: Graham Willoughby
Special Thanks: Marissa Hurwitz, Josh Upfal, David Raphael, Nina Cwik, J. Hope Stein, Oona
Music: Jack Antonoff and Bleachers
@galesito1733
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Steve is great. I love to hear him talk about comedy because he understands it as a professional and a fan.
@stereotypea123
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
“I crave demons” is a great title for something
@Shmew455r
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Worst part of a great movie called logan
@multifaceteduser3405
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
oh, he's done you again! PLAY A RECORD!
@multifaceteduser3405
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I remember watching a training video years ago and the bloke showing us says he thinks this is the guy they copied to get the idea for Brent. I think he might have been right, he was similar although i think Brent is an exaggerated version of him.
@CleverNerdPun
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Another great, interesting conversation!
@kmduarte2005
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I’ve had the biggest crush on Stephen for years. He’s so clever and self-deprecating. He’s a treasure.✨💖✨
@rosealee9367
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I picked this episode because I love Stephen (well, and Mike of course). It was great! I listened to podcast while grocery shopping but had to come find the you tube episode so I could comment! When Stephen had to explain to Mike what a “wash in the sink” was I knew instantly they grew up in totally different households!! There are other, more colourful names for this particular way of washing up too! lol!
@ajtowle6
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
The best part of this episode is watching two great comedians try to work through how to make a joke land.
@berbank
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Regarding the porn story, here's another perspective about why people don't laugh when Stephen turns the camera away: You've already set yourself up as feeling superior to them with the "how am I the loser?" situation when the fans comment on your looks. Then it's funny all the way up to you are turning the camera away. When you turn the camera away it comes across as you being mean and cruel and even more superior, which isn't so funny in that framing, so it's hard to find funny. You're punching down too much. It would be funnier to finish on more on the quandary over what to film and how. And then maybe add some made up comments from the fans of how bad it is, even though you, as a filmmaker, think you framed it well and fixed up some lighting issues.
@ginagarciasharp8743
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Wonderful episode. So gratifying to hear such interesting stories from Stephen Merchant and getting to be fly on the wall as you process how to elevate those stories. Looking forward to his special and more collaborations between the two of you.
@joshsteele5701
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Great guest bad interviewer
@KachZz
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Can't believe how relatable he is 😂 that chewing gum when plumber comes around and hiding his cut hand in pocket especially 🤣
@PNortRyan
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I always find him genuinely funny, hes so comfortably awkward 😂
@Nevernowaynope
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
When you look up the word DELIGHTFUL in the dictionary, there should be a picture of Stephen Merchant's smiling, Muppet face. Such a lovable goon!
@Wellwellwell489
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
They are so frikkin' good
@tanyahudson2156
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Wow, that glass story 😅
@Agent-wn7le
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
He’s soooo tall
@Agent-wn7le
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
He’s soooo funny
@ifiwasanelectrician2802
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I love Steve Merchant. I'd love to hear a version of the porn house story where there isn't irony. There must be a point of view that he was all gung ho to get there and it was a bit of a let down to him or something that they were afraid of their neighbors. Lol
@cmmmmmmmw
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Look at him, eyes bulging with imagined riches.
@chillmusic637
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I wasn't unpopular. Other people just never thought about me.
@blackjackx95
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Haunted pencil
@colinsmith484
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Oye- Lanky
@readventurekids
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
The height 'observation' must be endlessly tiresome for Steve, and to open an interview with it I feel probably doesn't put him in the best frame of mind from the off? Meh, what do I know, they seem like good chums. Anyway, love Steve! Thanks for making this.
@Maman5880
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Loving this interview! In the outtakes story, which I’m referring to as “Good Country People” in my head, could Stephen address the people at home while he has the camera turned to the wall? “This is good stuff folks, as you can see, Hulga feels passionate about her astronaut. Now let’s look at a different angle.” The whole time, the cameras is facing the wall, people are commenting and criticizing him further, but he’s pretending not to notice. “Keep it up Stephen, let’s give the people what they want.” And, “Let’s let bygones be bygones. Don’t log off now, they’re just getting started.”
@Pickyjonez
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Tractor sale
@deadpool8340
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Karl vs Steve great you tube video
@bff2109
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
This was a fabulous episode. More folks that think of Mike B. As some one to learn from. The “working out” part is the most interesting.
@MrAdam8485
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Honestly one of my favorite episodes. The rapport between them is great
@nicholascolello3158
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
great episode
@dolphinsnape
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I so love the pornstar story 😂😂
That payback was so deserved
The man's a genius!!
@grantparke2690
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Great episode! Hope you get to work together one day.
@LordOfElderon
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
MECHANT!
@ChadToney
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Is Mike aware Stephen’s already had a comedy special?
@Jenny_Oblivion
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Regarding Stephen’s party incident, I fell into a pool once. Also, on a separate occasion, my dog fell into the same pool! 😂
@erikweston209
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Ahh! The porn story!😂 ace
@rottensquid
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
I love that story about interviewing porn stars, but I think Stephen's punchline is the problem. It's a funny as hell reaction, but what also happens, for me at least, is the impression he's being a poor sport. It seems like, on some level, he knows that, but I don't think he quite understands how it lands. He needs to acknowledge that he was the heel in that situation. These nice people invited him in, shared their stories, and even offered him a taste of their world, which to them was a gesture of generosity. His reaction was to kind of crap on it. They can't help that the internet is, well, the internet. People like that infest every corner of it. There's no escaping them. By pointing the camera at the wall, he was being rude to his hosts, not just the nameless asses watching.
One of the things I love about Mike's brand of storytelling comedy is that it finds its gold in the deeper examinations, not just the one-offs (though some of his one-offs are genius too). Obviously, Mike has made it clear time and again that he withholds certain details. Information is cherrypicked to make the story more focused, and more funny. His first thought was to remove the true set-up, and replace it with something more generic. But I feel like the authenticity of how Stephen ended up in that absurd situation helps sell the bit. So cutting the show-business aspect seems like it would undercut the humor even more. I personally think the best thing to do is lean even further into Stephen's authentic reaction, and how he was feeling. As Ira says, tell the story, and then relay the emotions that came up. To me, the most interesting thing about the story so far is how it's falling flat for audiences, how he loses them at some point. There's something missing, and if he wants to mine the gold out of the story, he needs to look inward to figure out what it is.
To me, this is a story about how the pursuit of showbiz got Stephen into that ridiculous situation, yet he betrayed the golden rule of showbiz in the end, because he'd bombed with the audience. That's funny.
@diannellel2417
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Great episode! I came away liking you both even more!! So glad I found this channel!!
@ryanstills_powerlifter
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
His porn name is the Haunted Pencil.
@ryandunn5362
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Mike is the Best! This is my first time seeing the show. I'll be back! Oh, and Stephen is the Best too!
@ponzee22
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
You two have a great chemistry, could have listened to hours easily.
@nmichave
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Your short little theme song depresses me. It’s depressing for some reason.
@rangle_brammer
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
There are so many mugs on that table
@ericfrisbee
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Karl Dilkington
@HappyCandyManClown-z8j
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
STEPHEN SYRUP MEERCHANTT WOOO! He has such a syrupy voice. Keep up the good work at whatever this was.
@chadromney
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
53:53 i remember him telling this story on the podcast years ago
@kathrynaston6841
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Merchant is a treasure. I could listen to his stories for days.
@JRLink13
October 6, 2024 at 2:36 am
Rick Glassman when?