“Men Today Are Weak” – How To Master Power, Money, Influence & Reinvent Yourself | Patrick Bet David
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We’re diving into a riveting conversation with Patrick Bet-David about the crisis of masculinity and the pursuit of true power. Are you feeling lost, unqualified, or weak? We’re here to change that and challenge your thoughts on masculinity.
Patrick unravels the misconceptions around power and strength, revealing how they are stepping stones to freedom and control in your life. We dissect the multi-dimensional problem facing men today, from the rise of single mother households to the lack of male role models.
We unpack three powerful traits of leadership and a man’s role in his son’s life: love, fear, and respect. Patrick also sheds light on how to cultivate, capture, and use aggression effectively. Life is a game, and we’re here to help you play to win.
Power isn’t about greed or selfishness; it’s about the level of life you want to live, and we’re discussing how to balance selfishness, aggression, and power to become a net positive to society.
This episode is for the audacious few who are ready to reinvent themselves and master their inner strength. We address the moral obligation of men to be strong, and how to tap into the fire within you, choose your enemies wisely, and let them fuel your focus and commitment.
Books mentioned in this episode:
1) Power versus force by David Schwartz
2) Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy
Don’t forget to check out Patrick Bet-David’s book, Choose Your Enemies Wisely: https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Your-Enemies-Wisely-Audacious/dp/0593712846
Chapter Markers:
[00:00] Introduction to Master True Power
[00:32] Aggression Isn’t The Problem
[16:21] Be Audaciously Masculine
[30:42] Earn Your Authority
[45:42] Overhaul Your Masculine Values
[1:08:16] Become A Powerful Ten
[1:26:52] Who Are Your Enemies?
PBD Quotes:
“If you have fear, respect, and love, that boy has the highest likelihood of doing something big with his life.”
“If you want to be the guy of the guys, of other guys, you can’t go by the standard as everybody else does.”
“There’s a level of alpha, there’s levesl of success you want in life…”
“Choose your enemies wisely, but its business planning for the audacious few, not the timid majority.”
“If you’re going to do something big you’re automatically going to have enemies.”
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@TomBilyeu
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
@kasforai
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Yeah this guy is a Trump fan so not surprised to see blaming men shame on you rich people taking from poors and think of yourself as strong.
@LeoSeason1
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
❤ 21:37
@UnbannedAgain
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
You all are lost. Money is power. It has power over you and is man's greatest weakness.
@KennyL3wis
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
I swear I thought this thumbnail was a fuse of Mr. Bean and Michael Scott
@LeverageMedia2020
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Help boys eat…. feed them well… give thrm access to adventure etc…
@rmmccarthy1240
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
As a timid man and a coward, I find this discussion insightful and liberating. Thank you, you strong masculine leaders.
@Desertvibesmentalhealth
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Most people confuse masculinity with ego
@morisg2915
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
The biggest load of Rambo wannabe crap I’ve ever heard. The way one is prepared to fight in war is first and foremost via jingoistic propaganda and indoctrination. Once you’ve been convinced that you’re on a holy mission and that God is on your side, destruction, violence, killing of women and children, rape, destruction and contamination of cities and environments is all acceptable. Well, it’s not!
@SantiAprende
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Your podcast guest today thinks Trump is an alpha. It's laughable. Trump is just the crazy guy in the corner shouting nonsense
@SantiAprende
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Self-proclaimed alphas are actually the weakest of men
@richardrowe1538
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
PBD takes a macro approach and TB takes a micro approach to the topic of incentives. This is great. People can disagree and give a stimulating conversation.
@richardrowe1538
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
I have been telling both of you, the other ought to be on your respective show. Keep up you guys!!!!
@michaelbast6151
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
Watching this as the national nightmare of Biden and the bureaucratic state overplayed their hand and is being dismantled and defunded right now (Feb 2025) and democrats are melting down as the corruption is being dealt with.
@michaelbast6151
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
PBD is better on here than his own show.
@Jerico-xp8pu
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
24:21 "Choose your enemies wisely". Crap.
In totalitarian times you don't choose your enemies.
You take your cross and walk the way to the end.
@Jerico-xp8pu
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
23:05 – Churchill was a corrupt drinker. Nothing else.
@freedomfyter
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
That iranian doesn’t know anything.
@WMPBLSD
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
God brought order out of chaos, when He spoke to matter and created this beautiful world, life, and us.
@themightyafrodite5029
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
45:14 – I'm pretty sure there were a lot of white English males who were given homestead grants for land that they didn't earn. Keeping the land clear of the indigenous folx who lived there before the "settlers" doesn't qualify as earning it.
@themightyafrodite5029
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
42:10 – An immigrant doesn't get to tell Americans they need to earn the right to vote. That's NOT your place. Do that in Iran.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
California is the absolute worst. Made millions there and had to get out before. They literally texted me to death and Made running a business so brutally painful. That place is so low frequency. It was literally making me sick to live there. Tried to talk my family members into coming with me and people are just Entrenched in that place even though it’s going down and sinking day by day.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
California is the absolute worst. Made millions there and had to get out before. They literally texted me to death and Made running a business so brutally painful. That place is so low frequency. It was literally making me sick to live there. Tried to talk my family members into coming with me and people are just Entrenched in that place even though it’s going down and sinking day by day.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
You two are both so amazing. If either of you too, know any real men, please send them our way.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
You two are both so amazing. If either of you too, know any real men, please send them our way.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
When I was younger, I was in a relationship with a young man who was verbally and physically abusing me. We live together right out of college and I went to my dad and my uncle his brother and told them what was happening and all I wanted was for one or both of them to show up at my house get in this guy‘s face and make it clear that he has never to touch me again or speak a negative word to me and I wanted them to haul his ass out of there. Make sure he stayed far away from me and tell me I am such a valuable person and they will not let anybody ever do that to me as long as they’re alive. Instead, they did nothing and now this podcast is making me realize just how many moments of my life Myself, and my female cousins had to literally fend for ourselves with predator type guys coming into our lives and our father‘s literally doing nothing about it. It wasn’t even on their radar. What the hell happened to these men they didn’t have to go to war which probably was an ideal even though I don’t want anyone to have to go to War, but it’s like they’re literally missing the DNA of what it is to be an actual man in this world and I don’t think that that’s been a good thing for our culture.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
When I was younger, I was in a relationship with a young man who was verbally and physically abusing me. We live together right out of college and I went to my dad and my uncle his brother and told them what was happening and all I wanted was for one or both of them to show up at my house get in this guy‘s face and make it clear that he has never to touch me again or speak a negative word to me and I wanted them to haul his ass out of there. Make sure he stayed far away from me and tell me I am such a valuable person and they will not let anybody ever do that to me as long as they’re alive. Instead, they did nothing and now this podcast is making me realize just how many moments of my life Myself, and my female cousins had to literally fend for ourselves with predator type guys coming into our lives and our father‘s literally doing nothing about it. It wasn’t even on their radar. What the hell happened to these men they didn’t have to go to war which probably was an ideal even though I don’t want anyone to have to go to War, but it’s like they’re literally missing the DNA of what it is to be an actual man in this world and I don’t think that that’s been a good thing for our culture.
@drtracythomas
September 24, 2025 at 11:57 pm
The sexiest thing there is is a super strong, powerful man who leads a family dynasty and an epic empire, and is also capable of being gentle and caring and nurturing. Here’s to hoping these kinds of men emerge because I believe when they do, they will be so fulfilled in the worldwill change in the best way.
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