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Drew Gooden | January 22, 2026



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  3. @rv_le

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    These types of comments, no matter what platform they're on, have really made me realise that some people should have their internet card revoked. When I started using the internet, only 10% of the people in my country had access to the internet from their homes and I'm ngl, it was so much more peaceful. Now that everyone has access, people who are overly opinionated about everything, have far too loud of a voice. Obviously, everyone should be able to use the internet, but holy shit some people need to learn to stfu sometimes.

  5. @krusty_krab81

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    3:13 My ex literally had this mindset that he "sacrificed things" and was mad that I "didn't sacrifice anything for (him)". We're in highschool btw. The thing that he "sacrificed" was joining a club I'm in to be with me, which he didn't have to join in the first place, instead of the club he wanted to join.

  9. @davidfrasier2946

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    Married 28 years, 4 kids. Marry to build a life/family together. Marry some you like doing things for and who likes doing things for you. Marry some one who is committed to the principle of committment (and you be the same). And find someone with low expectations / an understanding of human frailty… and you be the same. It'll work out.

  10. @meeplie

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    i really wonder how the type of person that was making or enjoying this content is doing now because ive been in the same relationship i was in 2 yrs ago when this came out and we just got engaged, shoutout to healthy partnership and communication

  12. @Gatorboy5678

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    0:23 I saw a post on I think r/TrueOffMyChest where someone’s daughter was intentionally wetting themselves to keep playing video games. Almost EVERY comment was “Sell the game” or “ban her from playing it indefinitely” and OP edited saying “I didn’t mean to paint my daughter as a girl who stays indoors and plays video games 24/7. She plays Soccer, and hangs with friends, and has ballet” etc. and she wets herself when doing those too. And I don’t know what it was edited but not one comment was talking about the edit and were still saying “Get rid of the games.” People HATE gamers for some reason.

  13. @_g0r3c0r3

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    2:24 Ah yes, let me imagine it for a second.. oh wait, I don't have to! That's literally my mom's and every single woman I know's life! And obviously, no one is saying any of these comments or being mad about it? In fact, if one of these women talked and said anything remotely similar to that, everyone will get mad at *her*!

  15. @mlao1333

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    This guy so obviously panders to women by choosing the one video where guys are complaining and being ridiculous and avoids showing any of the opposite 😂😂😂

  17. @michaelmcdowell7096

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    I like the couples both doing seperate things in the same room together, its called parallel play and plenty people do it amd some autistic people love doing it with thwir friends and romantic partner. U really do add something by being in the room even if ur doing conpletely seperate activities.

  19. @gabie8075

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    My theory on the people who post massive oddly specific rants about situations they are not privy to have no working concept of people existing outside themselves. They cannot fathom a world that goes on around them with people that have nuance, life experiences, and preferences that do not align with their own. Thanks for another great video! That Drew he's a Good'en.

  21. @MSJ1831

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    Nobody can accept being wrong, nobody can accept anyone existing happily in a fashion they don't agree with, nobody can accept anything which doesn't perfectly align with what they think is right. And then they hide behind the same tired ass buzzwords like "misogynist" "white man" "alt right" (reason I only said liberal terms is because they are the ones doing it 90% of the time and the internet is largely liberal) which is all the other mouth breathing troglodytes on these platforms need to see/hear to immediately make up their mind.

    Call it whatever you want, people thought the world was going to shit in the 90s, early 2000s, hell even early 2010s and it was SO MUCH better than this. The internet has been a wonderful thing for a lot of reasons, this is the #1 thing that sucks about it. So many MORONS who genuinely think someone challenging/disagreeing or simply living in a way they didn't personally approve is some kind of attack against them or violence.

    Madness.

  22. @golferdadgreg

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    i once saw a video of someone lightly filling up the bathtub for their shelter animal every night bc she loved swimming but she was too old to do it herself now. someone in the comments was going on about how were hurting the animal skin and that they were going to give them skin issues from the daily bath times. the animal was a RIVER OTTER.

  26. @arthurisacannibal3986

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    im going to make a broad generalization and say that a good 80% of these people, if not more, are projecting. in some way, shape, or form, they are unhappy in their relationships or see something in these videos that reminds them of a relationship they were unhappy in at some point

    and i'm going to make an even broader assumption and say that when you see people online pulling random, hateful shit out of left field with no context to back it up, they are ALSO projecting. once you see it, it is sooo hard to unsee. when people make unfounded claims about people (highlight unfounded here), they probably think that about themselves to some extent, even if unconsciously (normally unconsciously)

  35. @gummizdoodles2568

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    Imo it's just the algorithm rewarding the most reactive people with content to engage with. If a person hates sports cars and comments on every video of a sports car about how much they hate the car and the person who owns it, they'll just keep getting fed that content. And there's nobody who comments more than a hater, so you get a disproportionate skew of nasty people in every comment section, regardless of what the content may be

  37. @whippedvanillachai

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    The judgment you see on that platform is not about you; it is the sound of their structural foundations cracking. The Conditional World cannot tolerate data points that prove its core rules are false. We are a threat to their entire system, and their primary defense is not reason, but contempt.

    Why the Conditional World Must Attack the Unconditional:

    1. The Transactional Failure: The world is based on transactional rules (chores must be split, time must be earned, attention must be reciprocal, relationships are a ledger). When a relationship appears to be operating on unconditional flow (he does dishes because he simply wants to contribute, she watches Marvel because she simply wants quiet companionship), it breaks their primary rule. They must label it "entitled," "lazy," or "simping" to restore the illusion of transactional order.
    2. The Scarcity Veto: The conditional person assumes resources (time, love, affection, attention) are scarce. When they see a couple with a seemingly infinite resource supply (the woman is tired but they're still "kind of together"), the conditional mind must Veto this abundance. The judgment ("She's unhappy," "Something's going on") is deployed because it is structurally impossible for them to believe the abundance is real.
    3. The Inconvenience of the Anchor: The internet's judgment is simply the mass, decentralized version of that original trauma statement: "Your way of existing is wrong and inconvenient, and you must conform to my rules."

    Their rules—the 'Imagine if the genders were reversed,' the 'You must follow this parenting guide,' the 'Your life is only valuable if it contains what I value'—are the bars of their own cage. The disgust you feel is the self recognizing the profound conditional lie they live under.

    The Weaponization of the Hypothetical

    Structural Rationale: The Illusion of the Reversed Condition
    ​The commenter's deployment of "Imagine if the genders were reversed" is not a request for honest critical analysis; it is a Weaponization of the Hypothetical designed to Veto the reality you observe.

    The Reality (The Vetoed Truth):
    ​The vast majority of Conditional World relationships already operate under the very "reversal" the commenter fears: women perform the majority of emotional and domestic labor.

    The commenter's argument structurally fails because:
    1. ​The Dishonest Proxy: The person complaining about the man doing dishes is projecting their fear that the transactional ledger is being broken in favor of the woman. They feel that male labor (even simple dishwashing) should be a rare, high-value asset, while female labor should be the default, zero-value resource.
    2. The Denial of the Actual Reversal: When they deploy the phrase, they are saying, "If a woman stopped being a default resource (the 'reversal'), I would see that as unfair, entitled, and a moral outrage." They are not imagining a balanced world; they are reacting with panic to the possibility of losing their unearned status as the default recipient of labor.
    3. Contempt as System Protection: Your relationship—where labor distribution is based on unconditional preference and flow (I will do the dishes because I prefer the quiet, you watch Marvel because you need rest)—Vetoes the entire gendered, conditional labor framework. The system must attack it with contempt to prevent others from realizing: "I, too, can step outside this exhausting transactional cage."

    Structural Truth: The internet's anger is proof that their flow is a successful escape. When they say "Imagine if the genders were reversed," they are simply revealing that their entire sense of fairness relies on the gendered structure remaining exactly as it is now.

  40. @nickjones5495

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    My favorite social media debates are the ones about well done vs medium rare steak 😂 it's usually the ones who like medium steak being the weirdest.. & I like my steak medium lmao. Truly embarrassing.

  41. @nickjones5495

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    I mean the criticism in the first video was justified. The user was definitely trying to trigger some negative interactions anyways because that's what spikes views for the algorithm.

    That second one was completely reasonable. Idk how that's wrong.

  43. @lostboi3034

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    I got into an argument with multiple people on a short where a biker pushed his bike he just extinguished after being on fire to a gas station right next to one of there pumps. And clearly states in the video he wants to restart it to trouble shoot the bike. I made a simple comment like this is dumb thing that is going to put other at risk lmao. The horde of idiots came calling cuz biker club stronger together… weak alone. And defended a clearly dangerous action.

  48. @ull4h

    January 22, 2026 at 3:01 am

    7:11 you know what’s really funny about this? They’ll do it for fictional people too; they’ll get mad at fictional characters in tv shows and movies and just incessantly hate on them! One obvious I always see is people hating on Pam from The Office and getting mad that Jim isn’t with Karen– like they’ll get so flustered and butthurt by it, all because they’re projecting themselves on these fictional characters. It’s truly disturbing!

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