The Less You Seek, The More You Find – The Paradox of Happiness

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In this video, we explore an alternative way to view and live life—one in which speed and productivity are not always at the center of everything, and instead, a tempered and calculated approach is taken toward success, play, and leisure.
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October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
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@DiceTwenty
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
yes, i loved being a cat. how'd you know?
@Fruitcupper
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Some times I want to be the cat.
Cos even cats get more affection and pats in 1 day than I've received in my entire life thus far.
Such is life…for men.
-Ned Kelly or something
@sephiroth8517
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Ive gotta stop questioning why when confronted with things i need to do. Its hard because the uestion keeps popping up to pester me. Why are you doing that you know you dont care and nothing matters… its crippling. I tried really hars today to say to myself, " i dont know why now and i may never be able to know but i know that doing these things are good for my body or for my happiness or whatever and contemplating isnt helping anything." Its hard because the question why doesnt like that answer at all. It questions even this process of trying to improve in some way. Why well i say why not voice shut tf up and go away you make me misserable i dont need to know everything to be happy.
@nickwilson2585
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I believe this example looks much different for the undomesticated cat. If you have the luxury of dependency than this lifestyle is an option. Unfortunately if adopted by all or just the majority the system colapses. A few can eat for free at the potluck but if all take the zero effort approach I don’t believe the emotions are one of peace a tranquility.
@omatsu-v5r
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I love this video man, speaks volumes as to how I view the world
@razac_zr
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Before bringing a baby into this world do we forget that one day they will die? Why are we born to die?
@Felipe-zl1rj
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I really liked this. I'm trying to be a cat right now.
@amertrnovac975
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
this was so nice! thank you 🙂
@Louzahsol
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I’m always alone and I hate being alone, which is weird for someone so introverted. I think I’m alone because I wasn’t born lucky enough to not grow up in Iowa. I feel I will never be able to live somewhere better. Sticking it out here makes me feel hopeless. I go to work and go home, I don’t talk to my family, I have no friends, I barely leave my house. Every relationship I’ve had has failed because of me
@TheRisenPeopleEire
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Two months later, with a mix of watching these, reading Jung like I usually would with practice of meditation and mindfulness alongside exercise and good eating I can confirm the less you seek the more you find, you FIND things and can accept them change your situation when you SEEK you're practically forcing something that ends in burnout half the time.
@KerriEverlasting
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
All animals deserve to live and be free. Be kind, be vegan.
@khyarina8690
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Kalo ga try hard nanti di bilang pemalas sm manusia sirik (sok) pekerja keras 🤮
@philliprobinson7724
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Hi. Animals measure time by how full or empty their stomachs are. Their behaviour varies accordingly. When my cat NEEDS food, it gets instinctively hyperactive, as if it was preparing to hunt. It creeps then pounces, attacks the curtains and furniture and makes a pest of itself. When puss merely wants to see what's available it sits by its food bowl and tries to look needy. Dogs especially have learned how to manipulate our instincts.
I would not advise letting a cat be your philosophical role model, because this video doesn't register the most important parts of cat behaviour. Anyone who ignores this advice will be taken to the Vet Clinic and neutered. You have been warned. Cheers, P.R.😄
@khyarina8690
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Nanti kalo ga try dibilang pemalas 😂
@totadol
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Unclear message z.. this video is not as good as the usual content in this channel.. felt forced perhaps just to get to the paid ad
@godKiller.369
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Listened to this on a slow walk in the bird reservation and stopped to pet a cat I met 🫳🐈
@stressedflipflop
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
the way i just accepted being a cat
@nicolasdelaet7881
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
In the same time stay in bed all day long leads to depression and anxiety. Speak from experience
@pikiwiki
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
just let the river flow and everything will come your way
@jell._.y
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
❤️ so beautifully put
@funfings842
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
"You're favourite part was staring out the window. It's a shame, you think to yourself, that no one else did"
@Blaze936
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Sometimes this lifestyle is an excuse for laziness and timidity. Live it for the right reasons, not as a pretext.
@DesolateRind
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Is this why rich people are happy
@jamiekramer8244
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
You probably won't ever read this, but if you happen upon it by chance, please know that this is amongst the most salient work my tiny brain has ever encountered. Thank you, as always.
@EntropyOnTheCrosshair
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Fuck , I was not ready for that at all
@kasimkn
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Leisure
by
William Henry Davies
Next
What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.
No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.
No time to turn at Beauty's glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.
No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.
A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
This poem is in the public domain.
@barba9791
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I am just an animal!
@medicopaul99835
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Didn’t realise when I became the cat😮
@MrPalmTree
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
These videos always put me to peace when I start struggling with it all. Thankyou!
@christianporto264
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
My hometown was in one of the random “town photos” and it just hit me 10x harder
@paulpwns8054
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
This made me tear up for some, good, reason.
@Silverzzx22
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I really enjoyed how the cat perspective was written.
@sambhavjain2641
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
I wasted 3 years of my life seeking nothing and finding nothing lol.
@djsitah168
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Try so hard and got so far #intheend
@RealDaveHelm
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Read ‘Cats’ by Charles Bukowski 👌
@thee_sethachon
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
please let me download this offline
@Phillia_crochet
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Oh how I wish to be my cat.
On the other note, I have 4kg of tangled yarn to unravel and wind.😅😅😅
@Xodileen_bell1234
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Perfect! ❤
@TomBillheimerII-xg7eu
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
Dogs are cooler than cats
@Tettzz
October 13, 2024 at 12:32 pm
kinda kafkaesque