Ruining Your Love Lives

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Ngl I wish I heard more from Gabi since I subscribe to her channel, not her sister.

9:44 the way i just died laughing

19:25 sounds more like aromantic that one, but similar thing but @ romance specifically, quite a significant amount of asexual people are aromantic (me included lol), but its possible to be asexual but still like romance, or aromantic and still like sex etc

15:20 I THOGUHT YALL WERE GONNA PHONE A FRIEND xD

oh boy do i have a story for you. I have had feelings for a girl in my friend group for a long time but until recently it was just like a platonic crush. she's bi and I'm demiromantic asexual. everyone in my friend group knows this and everyone except her knows how in love with her I am (I've been complaining to them so much). i really want to be in a relationship with her but I don't want to ask her out and be rejected and ruin our friendship. also the issue with being demiromantic ace is that I need to have a strong emotional connection with someone before I catch feelings and I just don't like a lot of the people at my school (also I'm in high school so that doesn't help). please help. idk what to do TvT

Great energy between you two, very funny and overall a good video ^^. I would just like to add a couple of things though (if anyone ever reads this and it can be useful):
– Asking chat gpt about relationships, queers and psychology will always be bad and generic af, if not plain wrong (also, queer relationships are still relationships, many things are common and you can answer on the "human" part of it and still give good advice, we're not aliens :). Ask friends, close ones or a psy even, the AI is shit for most tasks.
– Lesbians being bad at knowing if another gay/bi/pan person is interested in them has became a meme and a joke around the self doubt of "is it really hints?!!", sometimes reaching some preposterous levels of self-gaslighting and/or for ridiculous amounts of time. Next part of that cliché is "if that relationship does kick off, it's then going ultra fast".
– Asexual people are more like not really into sex (or under very specific conditions/in specific contexts only). They can still want romance and relationships (sex isn't needed in all relationships ^^). Aromantic people are the ones that may be less/not into wanting any romantic involvement in a "classic" relationship fashion. But even then, there may be exceptions or a different kind of relationship that may work. It's more of a very diverse and interconnected spectrum with a lot of variations and combinations between sexuality, attraction, romance, connection, etc.
Anyway, whatever the situation, even if it's scary, the best is always to communicate, be truthful and nice: to communicate honestly about "the thing" will always clear the air and provide guidance for the next step (even if that step is unpleasant/hurts :/), have a nice day! 🙂

and 6) don’t try making a move on them in their sleep, that’s how you’ll loose a friendship. (i’m really hoping it wasn’t my bsf that sent that)

honestly suprised your straight, if only cause i have been watching only queer content creators for a while i forgot yall existed haha but its fine, i guess some straight people (you) are valid

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I'm that single one 😢. I love this video your both so great together.