Performative Males
everybody calls me performative so let’s talk about it
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00:00 intro
04:12 defending myself
11:00 how do we spot a performative man?
11:32 the first suspect
15:42 the second suspect
17:57 the third suspect
18:37 performative reading & young men
22:22 the final suspect
25:53 performative male contests
28:51 the constant performance
31:47 conclusion
@injecteddoll
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
best get to plucking.
@ViolentBiggot
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Imagine being this cucked 😂😂
@defecatedmydrawers
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
this whole video was made out of cope broski
@ishasunil-x5y
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
well… if i had to choose i’d much rather have performative males than alpha males
@Jyio-e9h
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
The women’s rights account shade lmao😭😭
@KertieSosa
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Is that Film Cooper in the thumbnail?
@bunniv2r
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
i fully thought he was wearing a deltarune shirt at the start of this video…💔
@dustinsnoddy9883
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
This doesn't apply but an octopus will pretend to be female to get close to a female without being eaten. It's survival for them.
@dustinsnoddy9883
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
I feel like the right wing "alpha" male bros are more performative. The word "alpha" reminds me of wolves the most and the alpha wolf is the most calm. He literally behaves the opposite of the humans who just want to claim the word.
@KazBrekker-y2i
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
💅🧠🙆
@KazBrekker-y2i
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Just wanted to say, you don't look like a serial killer. You kinda look like a Beetles member. You don't piss me off btw👺
@elenavillaralvaro4798
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Literalmente mataría por que la población masculina tuviese la cabeza que tienes, como piensas, tus criterios e ideales.
@DestinyJohnson-oy8gq
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
i’m soop happy you uploaded!
@fles444
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
7:16 LMFAOOOOO
@ner.tan11
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
I find it so refreshing when people with a large audience justifiably call out idiots for being idiots. We need more of that, we’re all too nice about people being fucking stupid
@jaylawll
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
banana fish reference lol!!!
@nikoalkali
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
7:56 WAS THAT THE REGULAR SHOW INTRO SOUND
@angytingz
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
i clicked on this vid to educate my lovely bf on the performative male issue and then we just ended up laughin at how triggered u got fam XD
@kristinaemma8063
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
[16:00| he was on the reality show MILF manor. tough watch that show
@H4nnahBananaBread
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
people calling you performative because “the vibes are off” might honestly be the funniest thing ever holy shit
@TrthBHld
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
I notice "alpha" men (aka jerks) using the word feminism when they mean misandry. Feminism saved my mom's life back in the 70's, after hearing the story I'll never argue against it. But man hating I hear is misandry not feminism. True, programming of people and being a product of the life around us has always been going on (healthy and unhealthy) but it's reeeally bad today. And the online darkness and bs for views is harmfully bleeding more & more into the real world that people are actually believing. Been in brain & behavioral health for years so it's easy to spot what's intentionally going on, but our poor innocent kids have no clue. Working to spread the same message Kurtis. Great vid
@icychill105
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Performative male: Kurtis Conner sipping a matcha latte and reading feminist litrature. they really jacked this mans whole look and made it a meme.
@LeenaLee-k5g
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
I love how this video is just his defense ❤❤❤
@tristantheobscure8505
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
lowkey the more feminine stuff you can do without being insecure about your manliness makes you more manly
@SOILBOIL
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
What's like Kurtis' opinion and relationship to Hasan and Ian, the people who he's being compared to?
@InterstellarISS
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Bros talking from experience
@coffeeinfection2893
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
How could anyone be against the business in the front and the party in the back
@k-town101
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
I feel like this is a bit dramatic and pulling something apart that’s just a phase in someone’s life. Social media just randomly made it a stereotype loll
Some people just have these personalities, if u don’t like it ignore them haha! Some people are just wordy bullshitters, some are genuine.
The ultimate point is that the content being judged is being recorded and posted to social media… which has a performative connotation. Circling back to… delete it all and touch some grass.
@pragalu
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
Great stuff. The Tetsuo gag was funny. Good pull
@rodrigomarcondes5857
May 13, 2026 at 1:11 pm
It's a joke Kurtis. Learn to laugh at yourself