No Such Thing as “Out of Your League”
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@hi-sy9dp
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
i dont like the saying “he/she is out of your league” it doesn’t feel good I told my friends about my crush and what was the first thing they told me? He’s out of your league and you only like him because he was nice to you and right after I was like wow thanks sarcastically and they were like are you actually thankful because that’s what I was seriously getting at
@silentj624
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Completely disagree. Bad video
@ImVicBlanco
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I think there is such thing as leagues, I think we are equal in worth, but not everybody is equally attractive, or equally succesful or equally well spoken, or equally confident, Now leagues are not permanent, a girl can be out of your league, but then you do something, behave a different way, or achieve a big goal or become more confident or change your look and then she may be no longer out of your league. Of course that usually doesn't happen in a single day, you have to make an effort.
@TreacherousJSlither
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Believe it if you want to…
@bassekaman8315
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
There's definitely leagues of people. If nothing else people who have their life together and people who don't. If like me you still live in your mums house and work a piece of shit job for low pay, aren't in particularly great shape and aren't confident then you clearly aren't in the same leagues as someone who has all that.and I'm sooo sick of people saying all you need is confidence, what a croc of shit. There's a plethora of things that make someone attractive and walking around like your shit don't stink isn't going to male you attractive. Also confidence isn't something you can just click your buttcheeks together and have. Either you have it or you dont
@wayfareangel
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I'd never thought of this before. Then again, I'd never really considered this sort of league in general before. Thank you for expanding my horizons, and introducing a new view point ^_^
@jfsabl4917
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
If you're talking about money or social status or cuteness in the daily dating scene–sure. But when it comes to the drunk, crusty 60 year old following a college student down the street, yelling, "what's the matter, you think you're too good for me"…the answer actually is, and ought to be, "yes, you're delusional." Also, warning bells should go off when a person with money, power, looks, bunches of "friends" and IQ courts someone who got the short end of the stick in most or all of those categories–because that's how a sociopath looks for an easily-controlled victim. (Note BTW that these scenarios are gender neutral.)
@AidaRaven
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I feel like if you are genuinely trying to be the best 'you' that you can be, that's the only league we should ever talk about.
@swedishGirl1903
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I completly agree with pretty much everything you said in this video except for the part when you said nobody's perfect and should be put on a piedestal. Have you fucking seen meryl streep?
@f1urps
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
You mean… S-Senpai might notice me?
@8cyber.muse8
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I don't get why you don't have more videos and subscribers, your videos are absolutely awesome!
@chelseacreeger9166
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I slightly disagree. It wasn't that I was ever out of anyone's league; sometimes it was just that I deserved better. I dated men who thought they deserved be in a relationship and never have to work at it. Who thought I should just support them (financially and/or emotionally). I guess, in a sense, I was out of their league.
@colbyreid25
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
PREACH
@jarretttanforan5256
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Why is it that everything you say makes so much fucking sense!
@briannaconway4744
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Hey Janitor, I just wanted to say that though I haven't been subscribed to you for very long your videos are some of the most looked forward to on my feed and I enjoy hearing your thoughts and opinions not only because I share many of them but you give me a different perspective on others that I'd never considered and you're not preachy about it. Keep it up, you're wonderful! Have an awesome day.
@DeacSpeaks14
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Enjoyed the video and I do like the hair. You have a new subscriber sir!
@DeacSpeaks14
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Enjoyed the video and I do like the hair. You have a new subscriber sir!
@MrDontcareify
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
There are what one might call "genetic leagues", for lack of a better term.
If you study evolutionary history, this is proven to be the case (for humans, too).
@MaRaTheMeyvn
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
For your next video, consider talking about female-to-male assault, both sexual and non-sexual. When it happens, usually the man gets shamed, like "He got beaten by a girl so he's not a real man" and "He's a man so he's supposed to enjoy it".
@t_denial_stewart
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Hahaha, to all those new subscribers, how ya doin?
@williemetoyer1
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I agree with you here
@glassesman23
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Is it just me or was this vid a LOT faster than his past ones?
@brucebaker810
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
League, with its seemingly inescapable social ramifications, reminded me of caste. (Think "league"…for Hindus) And how fucked up THAT social construct is.
@AureliaLux
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Hey man, just wanted to say I love your content. Keep bein awesome.
@MegumiXBen
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Would it be possible to hear your thoughts on Ferguson and the instances of police brutality against people of color? It might be too serious of a topic for your vlog, but I figured that I would put my suggestion out there.
@sarahklepinger7783
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I think you should consider making a video about what what worth in a person really is. Can it be quantified? What are the main qualities you look for in a person? How do your values in this respect change as you age?
People: stop letting your insecurities get in the way of getting to know somebody!! If you put the object of your affection up on a pedestal, you will never see eye to eye.
@forgeturgency
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
you should make a video about your opinion with woman and makeup
@ltlredhen4177
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I actually had a conversation about someone who I felt was "out of my league" because reasons. I'm gonna share this.
@stonieda
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Make another video about confidence. Explain how to get it and talk about why comparing yourself to others is not important and alltogether meaningless. Moreover , I'd like to know your opinion on what makes a human a human being like the one he is. Have a great day janitor !
@aerendyll
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Agreed! I'd also definitely be interested in other things you have to say about judging people, whether it's by looks, class, in different situations, etc.
@LuciferSM351
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Another top 5 (x), maybe DreamWorks villians
@Mellowmaurice
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
Good video, what about friendships that don' t really have a destination. In other words do you keep talking to a friend who has no interest in anything or no interest in making goals in his/her life?
@Grisu.
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
the only reason that saying exists is because we as a dumb race created money.
@Limitededitionmystle
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
wow.. this is perfect… someone just said that an individual was out of my league.
@outsideaglass
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I disagree with several things you said. That's like saying that people can't really be more intelligent, or more physically fit, or more emotionally healthy, or more mature than others. Once the distance is great enough then yeah, they're out of your league. I'm speaking as the girl that's out of most people's leagues. But see, the part you didn't mention that you should've, is that while I'm smarter, faster, wiser, etc than most people, I also can learn from them and get things from them that I couldn't from someone who was on my level. So yeah, I'm out of most people's leagues so to speak. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to date someone in a lower league. You just gotta offer me something besides intelligence or general badassery- give me an island of refuge from the constant hurricane of life I throw myself into. You can conquer any distance between your leagues- but to say that the leagues don't exist is false. There are plenty of people that can't handle me in my element, and considering my element is most things, it makes it pretty damn difficult for me to find someone who can handle just how far out of the normal league I'm in. Even if you're not in my far and beyond league, if you can handle me at all you got my respect, and that's the first step to getting to date me.
@mootmuse
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
My belief in the whole 'league' thing has more to do with my utter lack of self-worth than anything else. Weird how real a concept like leagues can feel even when you know it's total bullshit.
@lepthymo
March 29, 2026 at 12:55 pm
I half agree with the vid. Your sentiment is great, we're all human and we shouldn't judge each other just based on how superficially attractive we are.
But there are definitely qualities that make some people more attractive than others. If you have a successful fit looking guy with good social skills he's pretty clearly more attractive than a socially awkward fat kid that lives with his mom. The first guy has more willpower and more confidence, hence he's a better mate. The first guy isn't going to date a fat chick that identifies as a feminist on tumblr, he can get someone better, but the second guy might.
We can either stay mad and indignant about this but it's how the world works, so if you want to be attractive, you have to work to be attractive.
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