love cannot fix you

Oh yes it can fix you! It is the most powerful force, the greatest motivator. People psychologise themselves out of needing it because it’s difficult to attain. When requited love finds you, it’s truly the most beautiful miracle. It makes you/your life glow like a profound brilliance. You forget to eat, sleep damn you even forget all your worries, responsibilities. That’s LOVE.

Ok

That's where you're wrong… On other places where you're wrong? Love does heal. Unfortunately, most of you walk in carnal level love. That has a tendency to wound not heal. And if I were you I'd be careful how you weld that thing.

anyone came here from that Instagram reel😊?

Who’s here from the reel?

people are kinda the same. did you ever play final fantasy 10 where all of your characters start in different places but share the same map? I think that's how we are

Am I the only one who came from the vid on insta

Who’s here from that one reel?

Got in by mistake, left with a great message.

"Turning to goonism" 3:43

High brow pretension tries to sound complex while failing to even make the thesis comprehensible

Most people don't fall in love with a person. They fall in love with the version of themselves they become around that person. Which is why it hurts so much when it ends — you don't just lose them. You lose who you were becoming.

😢

It's simply just that what u are looking for is not really achievable when u look for love.

It's the same as looking for a moment where u feel Nostalgia about a present situation.

I feel like "if, then" or "I need" is nearly always a convenient "lie" or only surface level truth.

If u realize that whenever u want something and get it the feeling of achievement doesn't last. The same is there with love.

It feels like our ideal love is just generally unachievable by effort/passion but more or less like winning the lottery.

this perplexes me

That quote from Before Sunrise is one of my very favourites. “Celine: I believe if there's any kind of God it wouldn't be in any of us, not you or me but just this little space in between. If there's any kind of magic in this world it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something. I know, it's almost impossible to succeed but who cares really? The answer must be in the attempt.”
It’s such a great film.. and even if the third film was a tad disappointing, I think ultimately the three films are well worth rewatching on a regular basis.

'i know love cannot fix, but is it so hopeless to not try?'

You said Jaques Lacan, I heard Shaka Khan.

I thought it could. I really did. I thought it could fix me and i let that belief destroy the best relationship i may ever have

posted right as i went on break with my boyfriend . fantastic

I think that love does heal you, what doesn't fix you though is trying to look everywhere for that love and that's why we end up in relationships that demotivate us and we allow them to do whatever they want because love is patient, right? This is the way i see it

love fixed me