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Does Having A “Wingman” Actually Help You Get A Date?

AsapSCIENCE | February 3, 2026



Does a ‘wingman’ make you more attractive?
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References / Further Reading:

Hierarchical Encoding Makes Individuals in a Group Seem More Attractive http://pss.sagepub.com/content/25/1/230.full

Kin selection and cooperative courtship in wild turkeys http://www.eve.ucdavis.edu/gpatricelli/Assets/Krakauer_Nature_2005.pdf

Adaptive advantages of cooperative courtship for subordinate male lance-tailed manakins.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17427119

Cooperative Courtship: Helping Friends Raise and Raze Relationship Barriers http://psp.sagepub.com/content/35/10/1285.short

Firefly synchrony: a behavioral strategy to minimize visual clutter. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20616271

Deceptive Strategic Identity Support: Misrepresentation of Information to Protect Another Individual’s Public Self‐Image
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/bpl/jasp/2011/00000041/00000011/art00012

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Comments

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  1. @scottys1423

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    It depends on the situation and if the wingman is good at it. My best friend is a very good talker and makes friends easily. He has no interest in dating though, and that is partly why he comes off completely non threatening. Unfortunately he doesn't know when to dial it back and his buddy talk. So he's a terrible wingman.

  2. @Mr.Williams530

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    My friend had to be my wingman in 7th grade because in had a crush on girl and wanted to sit by her but she had 3 or 4 other girls around her so i asked my friend to sit by me for the class period while i sat by my crush with my wingman and talked to my crush and it worked.

  3. @PlanetCookie3

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    Also, being an Alpha is not an exclusive status that pertains to a few people and is denied to everyone else. Everyone in this world can be an alpha. It's also not about climbing some ladder to be "above everyone else", it's giving off the best version of yourself while filtering out all the negative qualities that hold no value to you. AsapScience needs to update his information

  4. @PlanetCookie3

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    1:50 "human women tend to be more choosy" not really, they can't stand any insecure guys whatsoever and it's rare for them to meet a confident guy. "Females expend more resources in pregnancy, making it important that they choose a partner more selectively", again, the main goal isn't for women to find an atm machine, a meal ticket, or an errand boy, and not all women have the goal to get pregnant. "Women were more likely to use cooperative techniques than men, but these techniques were used to avoid partners", I've seen one woman use these techniques and then her friends joined in and started finding the guy attractive.
    Some of the info AsapScience mentions is inaccurate and believes in the fake image that the media portrays about women

  5. @davidlilley2736

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    Haven't the video but wanted to rant a big any wingman I had it might only be me though but the problem is they target girls that are more there taste style not what I said or asked they were puppeting me I think they wanted me to keep her warm for them gross in a way still they go after chaos party animals that would cheat easily not good stock or worth for me might even be a type that won't put out ever or too young yeah that could have sucked once I ended up stuck with a mega bi**h I'm glad that ended if she'd been needy I may have been trapped now I've seen the truth loves fake we are atms only easy life for girl they ain't interested in are lifes and fun they can have just flash your credit card that will work I haye to say no girl likes being called p**stitute but in a way it kinda is im glad I broke the needs im safe free happy won't be married by next week after saying this I've acctully got no interested and don't want someone under my feet the bit I will miss is the feel touch someone to chat with and have a laugh with my jokes fall on death ears also I am sad I will never be a dad well not at least with someone who will let me see my kid long story but to off subject but anyway so my life will be empty butbsafter and stress free and I can donwhatever I won't don't have to live a lie I can be my self enjoy my money on me and can game as long as I won't and no fear she might be nuts and sell my computers lucky for cloud storage these days huh can continue where I left of shell be like how why noway I'm not the villain but I had to point out some things on my mind can't see people these days and my mates well they ain't mates I'm a puppet to them I'm no slave screw em acctully no they may like that lol.

  6. @steveboone1498

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    Wingmen don't actually help those who are single and looking even though they claim they are. Wingmen are the type of people who will pick out the prime choices of potential dates for themselves but they will pick out the most unattractive ones they think you should date.

  7. @marda752

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    of course it does! just hold the wingman in her face the entire time and tell her to cooperate and that nothing will happen to her

    oh, this is not a titanfall video?

  8. @DeanRendar

    February 3, 2026 at 7:42 pm

    its not about having a comparison of attractiveness, its having an expert at being sociable to be there for you to help coax out your social side too in front of strangers whom you might have difficulty opening up to. Realizing nothing is too silly to discuss as long as its delivered with the kind of confidence in public your wingman is pro at. And have a gentleman's agreement to ensure mutual success for the team to find another 2 set, its only fair.

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