The ‘Soft Boy’ Epidemic
I’M ARTSY 🙁
Today, we look at the phenomenon known as “soft boys”. The dudes who act like they’re artsy and emotional for their own personal gain. With a little help from the @beam_me_up_softboi Instagram account, we take a closer look at these fellas, and try to stop…The Softboy Epidemic.
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SOFTBOI ACCOUNT:

@kurtisconner
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
UR ARTSY HUH????????
let me know if you want me to make a part 2!! thanks for watching!
@Truelyaverage
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I'm artsy 🙁
@Truelyaverage
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I'm artsy 🙁
@bre.anah07
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
8:00 ts did not age well 😭
@emmaleekearney7409
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
watching in 2025 this is the performantive male of 2019 damn i feel old
@charlotteclapper2845
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Coldplay joke didn’t age well, did it
@Your_Local_Hippie
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
NOT COLE SPROUSE IN THE THUMBNAIL HELP ME
@madsblinkenberg6322
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Soft boy sound basically like family guys Brian griffin, pretentious, preaching, think they are deeper then they appeal, over complicated sentences to sound smart so overall a douchbag disgusts as douchbag. At least fuck boy are honest and direct I think
@LovingNothing
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
My favorite soft boy trope is "Uh your trauma is so hard on me cuz I'm such an empath 😩"
@Trans_Trapezoid
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I hope I never become someone that could be put on a meme Twitter account that isn't actually offensive
@feel-good-inc-100
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
4:14 Huh?? What's In Utero doing in there?
@sebastiankarns7
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I feel called out by this video
@Ipomoea_Alba
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
yesteryear
@JetsFan2219
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
“Show me every boy at 7”???? Why is Google suggesting that?
@worlddictionary9954
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
it's amazing that you live in the moment. will you please get a full panel std test
@maddieturck5989
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
i was eating fettuccine alfredo while watching this and feel insanely clocked
@tinyoverlord
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Auras get flushed❤
@ellingbj1
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I’ve actually never heard of coldplay
@arty289
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
omg i got a partiak shoutout yay
@dashdandelion3681
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
softboy = histrionic/hysterical personality style!!!
how has no-one made this link?
check out nancy mcwilliams, and mardi horowitz on the topic <3
@no1Neruglazer
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
The start was basically what would happen to an entire movie production in around a couple years later, and now last year; We’ve been blessed with a banger of a threequel.
@alessandra_dazai4324
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
i'm pretty vocal on my insta about my issues with depression cause i don't like the stigma around it (i'm not famous, i just have a public account) and i got a dm once of a guy being all edgy and acting depressed (he had the most disingenuous and weird flirty, sexualizing mental illness vibe) …. he kept saying things like 'oh i'm so sad too, everything sucks and sometimes i wanna end myself' and i was like great, do it…. i'll support your decision…. he never messaged after that
@TwistedAndAddicted
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I'm artsy 🙁
@Turbos-b3z
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
"f*ck the planet bro!!!" 😂
@EliSturm117
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
As a softboy… i determine to be kind and nice, using quiet voices. I don’t like stuff like sleeping with someone. That’s yuck… I am just somone who is genuinely nice to people! I don’t want any thing like the definition that you said… 2:17 2:17 2:17
@Office_chair
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Soft boys are like the male version of
"not like other girls" and maybe just the less forceful and aggressive "nice guys" but will still get angry when you don't accept their advances.
@DHENSPYRO
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Kurtis knew before all of us. Soft boys now wear berkinstocks. Thanks Kurtis Connor. <3
@simpublic89
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
This was my gateway kurtis video
@ashegrey3042
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
i’m slightly disappointed kurtis didn’t use the joke “aura? how about or-nah?” but it’s okay i forgive him
@Patchthewoof
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
10:15 aura? How about aur-a no!
@ffioncampbell-davies5513
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Omg your great I’m in love with this silliness 👌🥹
@MayseyNoceda
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
Kurtis, 0:15 is the music in the background by the grace of god by katy perry?
@madmansami
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
8:13
wow! that bio aged SO poorly!
@wayacrazy.
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I wish I wasn’t a boy
@michaell8269
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
This girl won’t fucking dengue bag!
@lorenagago3256
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
you havent done a soft boy video since yesteryears
@AlliyahKhalifa
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
8:11😨 even for 6 years ago is crazy
@cnelson1614
October 17, 2025 at 11:21 am
I'm a fat white guy and I am a lifelong softboy. Plus I am a severe incel, not to mention a Pisces.
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