Why People Disappear | The Psychology of Being Alone

I love being alone❤❤

Only 35 minutes in and it’s like the Calhoun’s mice and rat experiments becoming reality

When I'm alone the Universe wraps around me like a comfort blanket. This is my place. This is my space. It's a perfect fit.

I'm a black guy in the UK, Jamaican parents. I was diagnosed as having ASD, Aspergers and ADHD (always suspected) in my late 20s but grew up as the "weird" kid. I'm tall, broad shouldered, got dimples lol passed all exams through school and college, lowest grade a B.

But this just meant that people were curious about me. At 33, I can honestly say I have 0 friends, I only visit my mom, I have 9 siblings, most older with children of their own, I've visited them but they never visit me (kids I guess).

I'm a sales manager and have been for 3 out of my 8 year sales career. But in the office, I'm seen as the guy who just works hard and goes home.

I'm just tired, I tried a lot to be a part of the group but it's not cool when you're always the "weird" guy or the "quirky" guy or the "yeah he's nice" guy 😂😂 its weird knowing I have a huge personality but haven't really had anyone to genuinely share it with for a long time. As a man, modern women are mostly too self centered to understand other people's problems amd show true empathy so dating is always out of the question.

The most comfortable lifestyle for me will always be one of solitude. Its not about want, its about society. It wasn't designed for everyone, certainly not people like me.

And DON'T GET IT TWISTED, this isn't sad or depressing. Its just simple observation and understanding

Wow, that hits deep and makes you think.

This Live gave me a chance to compare big city routine. And small island lifestyle.
There are to much people in modern cities.

i find my peace in solitude producing music spun mix vinyl skateboard film record content upload here on youtube and everywhere not on this channel tho i will create new channel near future

I just don't like living close to people because they're friggin loud and I get over stimulated. I like people. I like going out, connecting, then going back into my hidey hole out in nature where there are only frogs yelling at night. I do not want placebo internet friends. I want real connection. But, back into my hidey hole home.

I'm on my way out. I'll be alone. I hope the stars will keep me company.

Love being alone and free !

Reupload again? This channel has went to shit.

Such a heavy topic to explore.

People are scared to go outside and interact with other people because they are scared to be corrected because they can’t do a thing. This new generation just lays in bed all day and watch videos. They don’t even know how to use a broom or do something so simple. Good thing i picked a good job as a handyman and i can do all kinds of things and interact with people other wise i too would be stuck in a hole!!😂😂😂😂

Finally something relatable 🥲