If YOU Talk Too Much, You NEED To See This
Behavioural researcher Vanessa Van Edwards explains why first dates have become more awkward than ever, and points to a habit almost everyone now has: asking for someone’s Instagram instead of their number.
Discover:
• Why asking for someone’s Instagram is ruining first dates
• The three levels of conversation and why skipping one creates friction
• The five-question test that reveals if you talk too much
• The yap challenge and the 45-second rule
• What vulnerability regret is and how to avoid it
• The two self-narratives that shape your entire life
• The phrases that leak which narrative someone holds
• Why redemption narratives are linked to longer life and better health
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October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Watch the full episode here – https://youtu.be/q2cg1gEYWJQ
@CHUNKYNUGGET666
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
She makes me like being single..
@batonrouge6446
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
My take on this, is that IG would would be the preview of the person and if you are truly paying attention, when you go out in person you have all the conversation starters you could possibly need. You will be exploring deeper. No longer surface level. And you verbally articulate that to the person. And the way women are so scared of men these days, saying they'd rather have the bear, well…
@SreedeviS-x9l
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
❤👊Steven 😏
@SreedeviS-x9l
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
❤❤
@nonnobissolum
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Bird hands and way way way too animated. Please stop: that's my first impression
@ronniesullivan4976
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
The comments about Elara Vance arche type quiz are making me more curious than the quiz itself. Half of you feel personally attacked and the other half feel understood. What is happening 😭
@IvanIvanov-oc2tl
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Номере телефона для близких проверенных людей
@phoenixroseastrology769
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
To give one answer to her question at the end: I believe in fated encounters but that they become what we make of them. We have free will in the situation or with the person, but meeting them or experiencing whatever it was was fated. So both can coexist. 🙂
@Bjorn-Lucent
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Within 20 seconds I new this woman was impossible to listen to. Annoying AF.
@kevinsayce2248
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
I remember my Son as a 16 year old asking how he could get girls to talk to him.
I replied “Just ask them about THEM”
Girls will always reply when asked about THEIR opinions/day/fav things etc
@donnatheroux841
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Great topic 👍
@marks7321
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
I’d like to hear her speak more to matching speaking style and length to temperaments. I regularly provide more detail than my wife wants. My wife regularly provides less detail than I want. This usually results in me engaging with her more via asking more questions and her tuning out before I feel we’ve had a chance to have a meaningful conversation. It’s profoundly disheartening. All the more so because I have wonderful conversations in nearly every other relationship in my life.
@AndrewLaing-q4j
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
As a beginner, I've faced heavy losses trying to trade on my own. No matter how much I study, my small investments aren't growing. Any tips or recommendations would mean a lot.
@nicksterp2805
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Talk about themselves non stop, doesnt ask the date any questions. Talks about their ex non stop and treats you like their therapist
@DavidBond668
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Apparently approaching women in public is illegal.
@hypeNT500
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Todays generation definition of what a man is
@design-x7t
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
I try to keep my lunch in. If you need a "strategy" you always going to end up with someone fake like you. Are we still at this level?
@Eetelpiii
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
her energy!!
@filozofnarejonie
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
Jak zwykle SUPER odcinek. I mogę słuchać go po polsku. Dziękuję!
@TuneinR
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
I stopped watching videos like this.I simply don't understand why YouTube keeps flooding my feed with this😢
@JackSpurs1
October 7, 2026 at 9:26 am
The irony of a woman giving lectures on not talking too much is not lost on me.