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Horrors on Grindr

Farrell McGuire | September 24, 2026



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Grindr – the world’s most infamous “alternative” dating app. It’s been the butt of many jokes, the originator of many casual encounters, and home to horrors of many kinds. Today we explore some of them.

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  1. @MooImABunny

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    The reason the "Grindr crashed during RNC" meme is so funny is that Republicans often look down on LGBT people.
    While US Democrat politicians aren't wonderful people either, they are at least pro LGBT for the most part, so gay people feel more welcomed there.
    Meanwhile many Republican LGBT people have to hide who they are, from others and sometimes even deny it for themselves.
    "DNC is more likely to crash Grindr than RNC" is basically "fork found in kitchen" type story.
    Closeted gay people will break, do their deeds in secrecy and guilt – and on average they pose a danger to the community.
    For one, they'll often overcompensate and become the staunchest attackers of LGBT rights.
    Second – they'll try to lead heterosexual lives, inevitably fail, meaning they'll hurt their partners and perpetuate the idea that queerness is a personal failing and not just their nature, "fish tries climbing a tree, fails".
    Third, since these people already operate under the perception of wrongdoing, they can more easily venture into actual wrongdoings.

    It's okay to choose to remain closeted. You miss out on the joys of freedom and self expression, but that's your choice, or in some cases you kinda have to. That's fine.
    I even know a religious guy that doesn't hide his sexuality, but chose to marry a religious lesbian in a non romantic, child bearing but likely sexually unfulfilled marriage. I would never, but that's their prerogative.

    The problem starts when you project your self denial and insecurity onto others. When you throw other people under the bus.
    And this kind of behavior stems from Republicans much more than anyone else.
    So it makes the irony when they're revealed particularly delicious.

  2. @balisongkid1

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    Saying grindr crashed because of the RNC is so stupid. If grindr's servers can't handle the maxed out bandwidth of one convention… then they can't handle the shear number of users on that app. It's as simple as that. Not defending them, just pointing out blatant ignorance

  3. @NXHLVS

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    Up here in Michigan back in 2019, a man met another younger man named Kevin Bacon on Grindr. The older man would go on to end Kevin's life and cannibalize him. I remember hearing about it specifically because my partner at the time had been friends with Kevin only a few years prior. The details are grisly. I'm a little surprised you didn't cover it.

  4. @KnG02

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    Haven't started yet, is the scariest one about politicians lying about being on the app, yet crashing it whenever they gather in large quantities, consistently?

  5. @damonrichardson1999

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    In the heat of the moment sometimes people don't think about just how dangerous anonymous hookups are. Looking back on it, I couldn't fully relax when I hooked up. I watched closely the whole time. It occurred to me how dangerous those situations could've been and eventually after getting flirted with by so many old men I met someone so kind and around my age and I didn't want to go back. We actually started dating a month later and I didn't go back. Someone here apparently tried to meet up on Grindr to drug and rob someone but thankfully got caught quickly. I'm happy having left it behind

  6. @Booknooksss

    September 24, 2026 at 3:14 pm

    23:35 I’m not a republican but it’s sad that people just want to believe false news that go along with their agenda with no fact checks whatsoever, and it’s constantly happening all the time. At the end it doesn’t help anything

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